I found it pretty annoying at first, too. I'd been hoping to avoid that kind of attention from strangers, but then it turned out I'd be spending eight days a month with something making me even more attractive.

[Several red-tipped, white tails wave behind him.]

But it still doesn't really 'make' people do things, any more than an especially sexy outfit does. It's still up to them whether or not they want to act on their desires.