i definitely wouldn't have chosen. like don't get me wrong, i've had ~urges~ but i'm only human, right?
but doing those things, it felt like it's a big thing where you should at least like the person you're with. i guess that's the best way to justify it here, i wouldn't do those things with just anyone, i've gotta at least like them enough outside of whatever moonphase-y shit goes on.
as for your question of love from your initial post? personally for me, love is about respect and trust first and foremost. i know i gave a lot of myself away before when i felt like i was in love with whoever, but it's really important to feel like i'm not the only one that would do anything to protect the person they love, otherwise you come out looking like a fuckin' clown.
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but doing those things, it felt like it's a big thing where you should at least like the person you're with. i guess that's the best way to justify it here, i wouldn't do those things with just anyone, i've gotta at least like them enough outside of whatever moonphase-y shit goes on.
as for your question of love from your initial post? personally for me, love is about respect and trust first and foremost. i know i gave a lot of myself away before when i felt like i was in love with whoever, but it's really important to feel like i'm not the only one that would do anything to protect the person they love, otherwise you come out looking like a fuckin' clown.