[ The camera pans back up to show Cehd'ra's fanged smile as he shrugs. ]

Eh, s'no pain and it was only really unsettling the first time it happened. 'Naught to worry over!

[ If he's not genuinely fine with it by now he's doing a damned good job at faking it. But back to 'Michel's' problem. ]

As for how...you have lain with them before now, have you not? For me, 'was a bit heat of the moment when it came up the first time. 'Won't lie, probably it's wiser to ask 'fore things become too heated.

The direct way's not a bad approach in my experience.