[ titus feels fairly certain that there's something fundamental about this he's just not Getting... (and to be sure, there are so many, many things he fundamentally doesn't Get). but continuing to pry for more details and explanations at this point certainly doesn't feel like the right move. ]

So then...
You mean, it wouldn't be as simple as fulfilling one or two expectations and being done with it. You'd have to give over your whole life?