I mean, you can do what you want now. And there's a lot of people here who fall into the "distasteful" category, if you ask me. Just go for what makes you feel happy or comfortable.
I think I get it. To some degree, anyway. Even if you're only connected by a thin line and don't hold the same power, people treat you like you've got the same. Or, at least can influence that power. It's shitty, sometimes.
Start smaller than you think you need. That's always worked for me. Might mean more time later, but it helps you get a feel and it's less of a mess. Less add more this or that to even it out.
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Just go for what makes you feel happy or comfortable.
I think I get it. To some degree, anyway. Even if you're only connected by a thin line and don't hold the same power, people treat you like you've got the same.
Or, at least can influence that power.
It's shitty, sometimes.
Start smaller than you think you need.
That's always worked for me. Might mean more time later, but it helps you get a feel and it's less of a mess. Less add more this or that to even it out.