I guess it's up to those people to decide if it really is too hard for them. But I don't think that's a set thing. Like - it's harder on some days? And a lot easier when you have support. There were times when I felt like it might be too hard for me to ever be "good" again, and I'm still not sure I've made it. But I know I'm at least better than I was.
As for the stuff being too bad... I mean, I'd need some examples. But going back to your original post, the reason does matter. The reason you're trying to be better matters, too. So do the circumstances. In any case... I think it's always worth trying. It's better to at least try to be a better person than you were before, than to just give up and decide you'll be bad forever, right?
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But I don't think that's a set thing. Like - it's harder on some days? And a lot easier when you have support.
There were times when I felt like it might be too hard for me to ever be "good" again, and I'm still not sure I've made it.
But I know I'm at least better than I was.
As for the stuff being too bad...
I mean, I'd need some examples. But going back to your original post, the reason does matter. The reason you're trying to be better matters, too. So do the circumstances.
In any case... I think it's always worth trying.
It's better to at least try to be a better person than you were before, than to just give up and decide you'll be bad forever, right?