I know there are a fair number of people here from some version of Japan.
Then again...I also know there are at least some Japanese women who felt stifled by the pressure to only pursue someone they thought they might marry. It might be mistaken to approach this from an assumption that women are more likely to consider an advance to be an imposition than a compliment, since the attitudes I hear about could very well be lies to save face in a society that looks down on women who show an interest in sex.
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Then again...I also know there are at least some Japanese women who felt stifled by the pressure to only pursue someone they thought they might marry. It might be mistaken to approach this from an assumption that women are more likely to consider an advance to be an imposition than a compliment, since the attitudes I hear about could very well be lies to save face in a society that looks down on women who show an interest in sex.