Imagine if the person you love saw this post, thought, "Ah, I am dealing with a similar question, since I have fallen for my dear friend [YOUR NAME]! I shall read all the responses and see what others think," read your explanations without knowing they were from you, and then decided, "OP is correct. My feelings for [YOUR NAME] are inappropriate and inconvenient. I will keep them to myself for the rest of my life!"
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