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Maya Amano ([personal profile] thinkingpositive) wrote in [community profile] prismatica2020-01-29 07:54 pm

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I know this sounds like an odd question but I can't think of any better way to come up with an answer.

Say that you've just basically returned from the dead. Not a zombie or anything but well kind of but not really!

What should you give your friends as an apology gift? Flowers? Something more extravagant?
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[personal profile] clothed 2020-01-31 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
Truth is a gift. An honest answer when asked about the circumstances of one's death and return should suffice.

Has someone that you knew as dead come alive again?
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[personal profile] foolishjustice 2020-01-31 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
I expect it'll be the same with your friend. Just promise to be around, so they won't have to miss you anymore.
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[personal profile] spah 2020-01-31 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
That's a relief. Me and my buddies used to die on the regular. I'd be a little concerned if there was some kind of resurrection etiquette we weren't following.

[he's kidding

about being concerned]


Reckon I can understand that. Well... if it gives you any ideas, me and the boys would always get a drink after. That was more of a relaxing-after-a-long-day sort of thing than a present, really, but spending time with your friends ain't a bad gift.

Corny as that sounds.
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[personal profile] anti_altruisms 2020-01-31 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Since I doubt you had a say in either dying or coming back, there isn't really a reason for it.

[ Not a logical one, anyway. ]
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[personal profile] burnt_offering 2020-01-31 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't do gifts, but I apologized and took my brother out to dinner when I came back. A few times.

If they love you, they'll just be glad to have you with them again. That's present enough. They might even be frustrated with you for trying to apologize.
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[personal profile] healingraen 2020-01-31 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
I think I understand. I can't claim to know for certain, obviously, I can only speak from my own personal experiences. I've encountered... quite a few similar losses, and I often blame myself, though I know that I shouldn't. Practice what you preach, and all that.

It may be worth speaking with them about when you're ready. I hope that it works out for you, either way.
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[personal profile] forestofjade 2020-01-31 06:50 am (UTC)(link)
I don't really know what a guitar is... but, perhaps you can find an affordable one? If they are your friend the gesture should be good enough.
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[personal profile] hearstheblood 2020-01-31 07:06 am (UTC)(link)
[Why not - she has nothing going on today. Daisy takes and sends a picture of her kitchen counter, the one with a few bottles arrayed against the wall - including one that, as far as she can tell, is a generic-branded, drinkable but unremarkable local scotch equivalent.]

I could pour out a drink for the dearly departed.

[Hey. If death jokes are on the table.]
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[personal profile] hisblackwings 2020-01-31 02:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I suppose I hadn't thought of it in that way. Then again I suppose dying and coming back isn't something that many experience.
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[personal profile] downswing 2020-01-31 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Only words of apology.
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[personal profile] hedonistic 2020-02-01 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
booze
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[personal profile] afoolshope 2020-02-01 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
Personas can't cure everything.

But I'm sorry it happened to you. It just means you should focus on being with your friends now, rather than on what happened. I think they'll appreciate that more.
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[personal profile] satanslash 2020-02-01 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
yeah i think that would do it

or cupcakes

cupcakes make a pretty good apology too
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[personal profile] unholy_rebirth 2020-02-02 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
[A topic Thereth has a lot of experience with!]

The pain of death cannot be erased easily. Speak with your friends, and ask them what they need. And, if they are willing, ask them for help with what you need.

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