I think I understand. I can't claim to know for certain, obviously, I can only speak from my own personal experiences. I've encountered... quite a few similar losses, and I often blame myself, though I know that I shouldn't. Practice what you preach, and all that.
It may be worth speaking with them about when you're ready. I hope that it works out for you, either way.
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It may be worth speaking with them about when you're ready. I hope that it works out for you, either way.