Daughters would be amazing - but I wouldn't know what to do if I had one! i'd be too much of an enabling parent, they'll run all over me, I don't think I'd be able to say no at all.

[and look, lan zhan's face is showing up in wei wuxian's mind, with intense disapproval etched in his imaginary face. wei wuxian laughs sheepishly, mostly to himself.]

I... I don't think I'm at a point in my life where I should be looking for someone like that. I don't know. Maybe someday! There are more pressing issues to be concerned about, back home, and anyway, I don't have anything to offer if I asked for someone's hand in marriage. No lands, no money, no name - really, I'd be marrying up.