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[synchroswim]

yo serious-kinda-not-serious question but i 100% mean it




how do you tell someone that you reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally want them to uh
pet you and all that
(esp if that someone is ur roomate and stuff)

without actually asking cause it might get weird? i kinda got this itch behind my ears that i havent been able to get rid of on my own and i know im gonna get super extra needy about it when cordis hits in like. a week and im kinda hit or miss on being all ~suave~ with that sorta thing?? the big reason why it might get weird anyway is sometimes that spot above my tail gets that same feeling and THAT is the sketchy spot

(cordis sucks for this reason alone guys)

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[doctor_terror]

I find it is best to simply ask and get it over with.

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[synchroswim]

yeah but what if they get the wrong idea about it :(

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[doctor_terror]

You fear that you will be embarrassed if you ask.

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[synchroswim]

kinda
you know how it is when its like...

'yea i wanna get scratched but roomie is real hot so what if' kinda thing?

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[doctor_terror]

You think that you will be rejected and that will make things awkward.

Or perhaps you think they will say yes and that will lead to more than simply being petted and that makes you nervous?

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[synchroswim]

mmmmmostly the first one. the second doesn't bug me at all tbh

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[doctor_terror]

I figured as much. Fear of rejection is quite common.

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[synchroswim]

especially when it involves people they kinda like, yeah?

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[doctor_terror]

Especially then, yes.

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[synchroswim]

mannnnnnn
whys it gotta be like that :( its not fair