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prismatica2020-09-29 03:34 pm
synchroswim) wrote in prismatica2020-09-29 03:34 pm
text; / un; nocturne
yo serious-kinda-not-serious question but i 100% mean it
how do you tell someone that you reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally want them to uh
pet you and all that
(esp if that someone is ur roomate and stuff)
without actually asking cause it might get weird? i kinda got this itch behind my ears that i havent been able to get rid of on my own and i know im gonna get super extra needy about it when cordis hits in like. a week and im kinda hit or miss on being all ~suave~ with that sorta thing?? the big reason why it might get weird anyway is sometimes that spot above my tail gets that same feeling and THAT is the sketchy spot
(cordis sucks for this reason alone guys)
how do you tell someone that you reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally want them to uh
pet you and all that
(esp if that someone is ur roomate and stuff)
without actually asking cause it might get weird? i kinda got this itch behind my ears that i havent been able to get rid of on my own and i know im gonna get super extra needy about it when cordis hits in like. a week and im kinda hit or miss on being all ~suave~ with that sorta thing?? the big reason why it might get weird anyway is sometimes that spot above my tail gets that same feeling and THAT is the sketchy spot
(cordis sucks for this reason alone guys)
text; un: fireprince
my friend is also cordis and he got like that, wanted to be touched more than usual
he didn't tell me before i came over once and it was weird only cuz it wasn't discussed
then once he explained it was fine and we ended up hanging out comfortably and had a really nice time. it wasn't weird at all in the end
but if he had just told me what was going on from the start we could have saved time and started touching sooner, so he'd get touched more like he wanted, and it wouldn't have been so awkward at first cuz i wouldn't have been surprised/confused/shy...
so just tell him. crazy shit happens to all of us. not the worst. same friend helped me with way worse moon shit after that.
so just be honest and upfront. closed mouths don't get fed.