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[personal profile] i_will_live 2019-09-10 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
That's fair. Feeling like things aren't in your control could be scary I guess, but if you can trust the person you're with it can be okay too.

It's okay if this is a bit too much info than you want to give, but have you tried both being top and bottom then?
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[personal profile] foolishjustice 2019-09-10 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
That's why I said I can switch under the right circumstances. If it's someone I wouldn't resent taking orders from, it's fine.

[By which he means, he's okay bottoming for Ren, if they're not in the mood for power play.]

What do you mean by being both?
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[personal profile] i_will_live 2019-09-10 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I just mean have you tried taking orders too? I've only gone all the way during my first Cordis transformation and I ended up topping so I haven't actually tried bottoming.

I don't think I'd hate it though. So I was curious if you actually tried being bottom before.
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[personal profile] foolishjustice 2019-09-11 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Not strictly, though I

[Oops, accidentally hit 'enter' there...]

've done things like trading off who's in control.