Eichi "terminal cumslut boy" Tenshouin (
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prismatica2019-11-10 07:49 pm
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Good afternoon, everyone. This is Eichi Tenshouin. I was hoping that I could seek out some advice from those of you willing to listen.
There seems to be a situation in which one of my friends reacts poorly to me in certain situations, and it's made public enough that it's impossible for me to ignore. For example, if a new commercial of mine is announced, this friend will immediately post something to social media that directly criticizes it without actually addressing me by name. Or, if I happen to post certain pictures of myself, the reaction is just as instant. I've looked into this, and I believe it's called "vagueing."
I have spoken to this friend, but each time it seems that things have been solved, the issue starts over once more without warning. I must be causing some ill feelings to inspire this sort of reaction, but it's all tied directly to my success. I wonder what to do...
This is the first time I'm using the network to post something on my own, so I hope that I've done so correctly. Thank you.
[For context, mid last month Eichi had a boost in popularity from a concert after his months of idol work and now is on the radio, TV, commercials, and etc instead of just indie gigs, so feel free to recognize him as an idol from his name if you'd like!]
There seems to be a situation in which one of my friends reacts poorly to me in certain situations, and it's made public enough that it's impossible for me to ignore. For example, if a new commercial of mine is announced, this friend will immediately post something to social media that directly criticizes it without actually addressing me by name. Or, if I happen to post certain pictures of myself, the reaction is just as instant. I've looked into this, and I believe it's called "vagueing."
I have spoken to this friend, but each time it seems that things have been solved, the issue starts over once more without warning. I must be causing some ill feelings to inspire this sort of reaction, but it's all tied directly to my success. I wonder what to do...
This is the first time I'm using the network to post something on my own, so I hope that I've done so correctly. Thank you.
[For context, mid last month Eichi had a boost in popularity from a concert after his months of idol work and now is on the radio, TV, commercials, and etc instead of just indie gigs, so feel free to recognize him as an idol from his name if you'd like!]
text. HOW I'M SCREAMING AT THIS ACCOUNT'S 2K+ INBOX
Everyone telling you to drop that friend obviously can't read, I guess.
LGDFMGLDM KOU I USE GMAIL TOO DELETE YOUR INBOX ONES
Ah, but you think I shouldn't, then? To be honest, I'd rather not...
watch me delete her entire inbox out of spite
You wouldn't be making this post if the answer was as easy as ghosting this person, right? So don't listen to anyone who tells you to do so. That's just running away from your problems.
clean it for us
Still, I'm more inclined to believe this. Is it wrong or right, if my heart favors one piece of advice over the other? Am I taking the easy route, or something too optimistic? I'm not sure.
The last thing I want to do is take this for granted or run from it, however.
maybe i will...........
[ pls, who cares if this isn't ryuu. ]
I wouldn't say it's any more wrong or right. It just sounds like you already know what you have to do. It's obvious this person is important, so don't let it go without a fight.
PK them in an open field if you have to. You'd beat them, for sure.
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But you're right. They're important. Ah, I'm finding myself inspired by your words, except...
What's "PK"?
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Player-kill. PVP. Fight them in a video game. Sometimes you have to take out your aggressions on each other without resorting to real violence.
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Well, yes, but...
Oh. I've never been able to play video games for long due to my health, so I wonder if I'm at a disadvantage... [With how bad Shuu is? No.]
How do you set something like that up? If I win he has to forgive me? If I lose he'll ask that I leave him alone forever? It feels like a trivial thing to stake so much on.
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It's stupid but isn't it better than hurting each other? Unless you really want to punch him in the face. He probably deserves it.
had to fact check and I'm WRONG
I suppose I'll take your suggestion into consideration. At the very least, I don't want to give up.
NOT HERE
also not here.
still not here