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prismatica2019-11-10 07:49 pm
finethanks) wrote in prismatica2019-11-10 07:49 pm
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Good afternoon, everyone. This is Eichi Tenshouin. I was hoping that I could seek out some advice from those of you willing to listen.
There seems to be a situation in which one of my friends reacts poorly to me in certain situations, and it's made public enough that it's impossible for me to ignore. For example, if a new commercial of mine is announced, this friend will immediately post something to social media that directly criticizes it without actually addressing me by name. Or, if I happen to post certain pictures of myself, the reaction is just as instant. I've looked into this, and I believe it's called "vagueing."
I have spoken to this friend, but each time it seems that things have been solved, the issue starts over once more without warning. I must be causing some ill feelings to inspire this sort of reaction, but it's all tied directly to my success. I wonder what to do...
This is the first time I'm using the network to post something on my own, so I hope that I've done so correctly. Thank you.
[For context, mid last month Eichi had a boost in popularity from a concert after his months of idol work and now is on the radio, TV, commercials, and etc instead of just indie gigs, so feel free to recognize him as an idol from his name if you'd like!]
There seems to be a situation in which one of my friends reacts poorly to me in certain situations, and it's made public enough that it's impossible for me to ignore. For example, if a new commercial of mine is announced, this friend will immediately post something to social media that directly criticizes it without actually addressing me by name. Or, if I happen to post certain pictures of myself, the reaction is just as instant. I've looked into this, and I believe it's called "vagueing."
I have spoken to this friend, but each time it seems that things have been solved, the issue starts over once more without warning. I must be causing some ill feelings to inspire this sort of reaction, but it's all tied directly to my success. I wonder what to do...
This is the first time I'm using the network to post something on my own, so I hope that I've done so correctly. Thank you.
[For context, mid last month Eichi had a boost in popularity from a concert after his months of idol work and now is on the radio, TV, commercials, and etc instead of just indie gigs, so feel free to recognize him as an idol from his name if you'd like!]
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and not just because you have a cute face that wants to be helped (｡ˇ艸ˇ)
[He's in public, he can't make a crack about Ryuu being a heroic self-sacrificing type without giving away that he perceives himself as not being one. So calling him cute it is.]
mmm, i think caring can make it harder to communicate
because it's really important to you that you get it right, so you fumble all the more trying （●´・×・｀●）
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Though maybe this situation isn't the best to say so...I want to be able to help out seriously too.
[ luckily, he's none the wiser for being a source of deflection. ryuu said himbo rights. ]
I suppose that's true, though. You really have a finger on the pulse of things like this, don't you?
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cute can still be serious...
[he is deeply hurt by this insinuation!!]
i guess i've seen people around me deal with a lot of stuff
so it's easier to spot because i've spotted it before ┐(´ｰ｀)┌
[Try "experienced it before", in many cases.]