just kinda dealt with this actually and it sorta blew up in my face too. still kinda not sure how but it was definitely a case of someone seeing me as i used to be versus now. we just also never had much time apart either so it only confuses things and not quite like what you’re going thru.
but before they ended up going home i just sorta resolved to let them figure their shit out and maybe once they did they’d come back to me and apologize and we could be cool again. I don’t think i can recommend just staying away from them though since you didnt have a fight or anything (did you?)
I guess... well ok I got another friend who kind of fits this too although im not sure if our time apart is the same amount as yours and we kept in touch but it also involves him being from a different point in time (and prolly universe tbh since his memories don’t match mine, six month difference aside) and like... he’s not totally the same. but he doesn’t really treat me any different and im trying not to treat him differently either but... i think we’re drifting too. Not doing it on purpose or anything but...
Um, I guess it depends on what you two still want out of your friendship? Like it sounds like you still wanna be their friend and stuff so just keep treating them like a friend. get to know them all over again if you have to and just see what happens?
Like what the person before me said, seems like a real tough situation! I’m not sure actually talking about it is gonna help like everyone says, although communicating is totally not a bad thing.
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but before they ended up going home i just sorta resolved to let them figure their shit out and maybe once they did they’d come back to me and apologize and we could be cool again. I don’t think i can recommend just staying away from them though since you didnt have a fight or anything (did you?)
I guess... well ok I got another friend who kind of fits this too although im not sure if our time apart is the same amount as yours and we kept in touch but it also involves him being from a different point in time (and prolly universe tbh since his memories don’t match mine, six month difference aside) and like... he’s not totally the same. but he doesn’t really treat me any different and im trying not to treat him differently either but... i think we’re drifting too. Not doing it on purpose or anything but...
Um, I guess it depends on what you two still want out of your friendship? Like it sounds like you still wanna be their friend and stuff so just keep treating them like a friend. get to know them all over again if you have to and just see what happens?
Like what the person before me said, seems like a real tough situation! I’m not sure actually talking about it is gonna help like everyone says, although communicating is totally not a bad thing.
Ugh sorry I’m not really helping am I?