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✑ Rohan Kishibe ([personal profile] penpoint) wrote in [community profile] prismatica2019-11-12 08:11 pm

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i hate that it's come to this but i need some advice on something
and due to the nature of the question i'd prefer to get a few perspectives rather than just one or two people

maybe someone else here has gone through the same thing

say that you and another person have known each other for a long, long time
but you were apart for awhile
and now you're both pretty different

how do you see someone as the person they are now?
how do you make them see you as the person you are now?


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[personal profile] nobodylikeshim 2019-11-13 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of biases, huh? That's hard. ♦
Still, you know, rarely is anyone seen like how they see themselves. ♠
So. How is it that you want to be seen? ♥
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[personal profile] nobodylikeshim 2019-11-13 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
[ He's going to be fighting a thirteen-year-old who is actually a seventy-year-old to the death sometime this month, because no one else wants to fight him to the death, and even the thirteen-year-old doesn't even want to do it. ]

You may have to do something drastic.

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[personal profile] champagnetower 2019-11-13 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
This is really sad.
I don't know what I would do.
I would probably try to be as I always was with them.
Maybe things between you are not as different as they seem.
I don't know.
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[personal profile] champagnetower 2019-11-13 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
I guess so.
I've never dealt with it before.
Maybe I'm dealing with it right now and don't know it.
But still I would try, I think.
If you've known someone a long time, then maybe you were close.
And bonds don't just vanish so maybe there's still something there.
Maybe.

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[personal profile] tensasai 2019-11-13 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
i guess it depends how close you were before
if you were friends it shouldn't be that hard to get along again, right?
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[personal profile] tensasai 2019-11-13 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
it's hard sometimes to not hold on to your memories of someone
how they used to be
i'm not very good at it
but if you're that close you should just talk to them
they might surprise you

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[personal profile] regelkonform 2019-11-13 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
I think it depends on the sort of relationship you had before and how you know each other.

Are they family?
Or like family?
Someone you grew up with?
Or is it more a kind of situation regarding a different sort of relationship?


[ he thinks he’s getting at something here he swears ]

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[personal profile] nipzips 2019-11-13 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
sounds like you've over-complicating stuff, man. if you both like each other the same, there's no issue, right?

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a lesson in tolerance ...

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[personal profile] doreimi 2019-11-13 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
[It's kind of strange, reading the message that appears on the network anonymously. Some of the phrasing — it's almost word for word what she was telling Akashi the other day, and the deja vu is a little striking.

It wouldn't be Rohan, though, anyway. Rohan's the type of person to always put his name to his words and ideas, and she'd recognize the way he writes, anyway. So, it's a little encouraging to think that someone else out there has a similar problem that she has. Maybe offering up her perspective will result in some clarity of her own; she can only hope.]


i wish i knew that answer to that, actually
sometimes it feels like a lot of people don't see me for who i really am

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[personal profile] torsion 2019-11-13 04:44 am (UTC)(link)
Talk to them. Be honest.
Talk to them, make sure they talk to you.
And work on it.
Maybe it'll take time, but if they're worth it then it'll pan out.

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[personal profile] lightsworn 2019-11-13 12:46 pm (UTC)(link)
To be honest, being direct has helped me, though then again i was the one having to meet an old friend a slightly changed man.

At the risk of sounding like most of the people here, I'd say just directly tell them, and it'd take time for both of you to accept it, but it's better having tried than not.

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[personal profile] teaserving 2019-11-13 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
this is a tough one
i feel like if someone i knew in the past met me now, i'd be a lot different than they'd expect
for better or for worse

i dont know if it helps
but maybe try not to think hard about the past
and try to focus on getting to know them as they are now

it sounds like they're worth it to you
so make an effort to know them
and try to keep yourself open to them
tall request i know

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[personal profile] dj_jiraiya 2019-11-15 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
just kinda dealt with this actually and it sorta blew up in my face too. still kinda not sure how but it was definitely a case of someone seeing me as i used to be versus now. we just also never had much time apart either so it only confuses things and not quite like what you’re going thru.

but before they ended up going home i just sorta resolved to let them figure their shit out and maybe once they did they’d come back to me and apologize and we could be cool again. I don’t think i can recommend just staying away from them though since you didnt have a fight or anything (did you?)

I guess... well ok I got another friend who kind of fits this too although im not sure if our time apart is the same amount as yours and we kept in touch but it also involves him being from a different point in time (and prolly universe tbh since his memories don’t match mine, six month difference aside) and like... he’s not totally the same. but he doesn’t really treat me any different and im trying not to treat him differently either but... i think we’re drifting too. Not doing it on purpose or anything but...

Um, I guess it depends on what you two still want out of your friendship? Like it sounds like you still wanna be their friend and stuff so just keep treating them like a friend. get to know them all over again if you have to and just see what happens?

Like what the person before me said, seems like a real tough situation! I’m not sure actually talking about it is gonna help like everyone says, although communicating is totally not a bad thing.

Ugh sorry I’m not really helping am I?
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[personal profile] deathboss 2019-11-17 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
well babe, I just so happen to have experienced something like that back home except we had only known each other for a few years as kids before meeting up again as teenagers

as a kid I was a lot more shy but i grew into a popular boy and my friends also changed a lot as well

i see them for who they are now and how we all grew

what you need to accept is the past is in the past and as much as you want it to be the same that wont happen

and sure they sometimes see me as that shy little stuttering kid but i think actions speak harder than words. or fists to a demon's face

same thing really

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