I feel like you're misreading my intent. To me, you made it sound like your experience with other places tell you this is the same. I was simply saying if that suspicion at the start keeps you safer then it's fair because of that. I wasn't trying to call you a mistrusting person.
I don't just give away my trust either. But we're different in how we do it.
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I don't just give away my trust either. But we're different in how we do it.