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[dereban]

Yeah, I bet you're probably going, "oh, hey, an anonymous post, what are they going to ask THIS TIME" and I want to combat that with yes, I have an inquiry, but I want to at least try to not be boring about it.

And therefore, allow me to give you a scenario: 1) imagine that you're an Iris. 2) you have a SO that you've been dating for a few months at best, but they're not exactly here. 3) you have a crush on a few people because they remind you a little of 2, but neither of them know you have a SO. 4) one of them is your roommate and you have absolutely done things with them.

Now the thing is: I want to tell them the truth, but how do I break it to them...? Or should I even do that to begin with?

If you don't want to answer that, I'll give you guys something more chill: send me your funniest images and I'll judge them on a scale from one to ten.

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[torsion]

I didn't say that.
I'm saying it's the right thing to do. They didn't consent to it and neither did the person here.
You have to sort out your priorities. How would you feel if someone said they were dating you or you were their significant other while messing around with other people?
Weigh it out.

[dereban]

In normal circumstances?

I'd think that they're cheating on me. But in a place like this, I personally feel like it's different. Or am I wrong for thinking that?

[torsion]

There are other ways to make chroma and maybe everyone might think differently, but you've got a rough choice to make.
Unless you're into open dating and know they would be, but they aren't here to speak for themselves.
I think you know the answer.
And talking to the person here shouldn't be difficult if you're honest. You aren't committed to them, right? So they should at least listen and be willing to understand.

[dereban]

Yeah.

I mean, I'm open to the idea, but again. They aren't here. I can't guarantee their answer one way or another; I haven't spoken to them on it, after all.

I'll probably have to talk to them.

I just hope it doesn't somehow turn into a shitshow.

[torsion]

Then you know what your answer is.
That's the shitty thing, isn't it? You knew the answer already.
Wish there was an alternative to make it all more clear.
Guess you just have to be earnest with them and let them know you're telling them now because you're serious about them (assuming you are).

[dereban]

Even if you know the answer to something, sometimes you need a second perspective on things.

Life isn't easy, after all.