text: anonymous

[necroyalty]

There's something I'd like to discuss.

Suppose that you were betrothed to another in your own world. That person tells you that they are more than comfortable with you having dalliances as long as they are the sole possessor of your heart, and you accept these terms.

And then you're spirited off to this place without them.

The only times I recall connecting to others on a more intimate level, I was under the influence of the Iris moon, but it is cowardice to say that I shouldn't be blamed for not letting them know this earlier.

Do I even owe an explanation to anyone else here, if I've held up my terms of the agreement to my betrothed?

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text | username: inaban

[dereban]

[ Oh, this is something that she can somewhat relate to...

Not actually going anonymous for this. ]

I think being honest is the best, as someone who's dealt with something like that.

But if you've already had terms regarding it, as long as you make the other party aware that, 'hey, my SO is good w/ this shit, don't worry' and that they're OK with that sort of arrangement, it shouldn't be an issue. Not telling them is just prone to cause more issues in the long run.

Re: text | username: inaban

[necroyalty]

No, you're right.

And besides, even if my betrothed happens to find this arrangement acceptable, should they arrive here?

They have a particularly strong presence that can be a bit much for some people.

[dereban]

And that's exactly why you should tell them.

They say communication is important, after all.