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[thinkingpositive]

I know this sounds like an odd question but I can't think of any better way to come up with an answer.

Say that you've just basically returned from the dead. Not a zombie or anything but well kind of but not really!

What should you give your friends as an apology gift? Flowers? Something more extravagant?

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[healingraen]

I think I understand. I can't claim to know for certain, obviously, I can only speak from my own personal experiences. I've encountered... quite a few similar losses, and I often blame myself, though I know that I shouldn't. Practice what you preach, and all that.

It may be worth speaking with them about when you're ready. I hope that it works out for you, either way.

[thinkingpositive]

Thank you.

It's at least comforting to know I'm not the only one going through this, in an odd way?

Now that I type it, it sounds kind of morbid! Sorry!

[healingraen]

There's nothing to apologize for. Believe me, I'm used to "morbid". I realize that we're strangers but should you find you have need of someone to talk to about this or similar things, if I can help you're welcome to call on me personally.

And it makes sense! I think everyone wants to feel like they're understood.