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prismatica2020-02-16 05:29 pm
amidstsnow) wrote in prismatica2020-02-16 05:29 pm
video | un:jinzixun
[look at this finely dressed deer in the headlights. this is the face of a man who's clearly trying hard at something. and while he's still new to much of the technology here, that isn't the problem. (even if the typo in his own name might suggest otherwise.)
he looks like he might turn this off after all, and maybe he's regretting that he didn't go with the texted word, but then he takes a breath and pushes forward.]
I would like to address those out there who are fathers. Or anyone who might have experience with raising a child. Sons, especially.
[a long pause...a man with as much pride as jin zixuan surely finds it hard to ask for help. but he reminds himself of his sole reason, and suddenly it all rushes out.]
How does one...form bonds with them? What activities do they enjoy? What should you talk about? Do you try to be their friend?
How do you inquire about their [his expression twists.] chroma?
Any advice would be appreciated.
[please make him father of the year, it would mean so much.]
he looks like he might turn this off after all, and maybe he's regretting that he didn't go with the texted word, but then he takes a breath and pushes forward.]
I would like to address those out there who are fathers. Or anyone who might have experience with raising a child. Sons, especially.
[a long pause...a man with as much pride as jin zixuan surely finds it hard to ask for help. but he reminds himself of his sole reason, and suddenly it all rushes out.]
How does one...form bonds with them? What activities do they enjoy? What should you talk about? Do you try to be their friend?
How do you inquire about their [his expression twists.] chroma?
Any advice would be appreciated.
[please make him father of the year, it would mean so much.]
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[zixuan was given much, but also earned recognition. he was never overlooked. what their father did to guangyao was deliberate, and wrong. he knows that, and if he'd spoken up more, maybe he'd actually have a brother.
somehow jin ling still had an uncle, and he'll never stop being grateful for that.]
That's to be expected. [it would be hard not to spoil a child in jin ling's circumstances.] I still need your help, A-Yao. With him. The best thing I can do for A-Ling is to strengthen our bond as well.
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Dammit. Sometimes he sort of wishes he was still dead. Things were just easier that way, you know?]
Young Master... I don't know what to say. [He smiles though, because it's his default reaction to pretty much anything. Smile and lower his gaze and be demure as he thinks. It might be easier for him to strengthen the bond between father and child this way, because surely they will need the support of each other when Guangyao's indiscretions come to light.]
Of course I will help. We... never had much of a chance to form any sort of relationship back home, after all. [Beyond that of master and glorified secretary, perhaps, since Guangshan didn't seem fit to let Zixuan in on all the dirty work he was letting Guangyao stain his hands with so Zixuan's would remain more or less clean.]