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Kore ❀ Persephone ([personal profile] ragingnature) wrote in [community profile] prismatica2020-04-30 02:40 am

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[ It took her a little bit to figure out how to post anonymously and she'll likely fail to keep it up, but she thought she'd try. ]

A recent survey posted to the network has me wondering how many here have been here for a little while and HAVEN'T done anything more beyond platonic physical contact. I only wish to know how long you've been here if so. You don't need to elaborate unless you want to.

One more query.

Say you have a crush on someone who isn't here. And not just a tiny little fluttering of something but it's so ridiculously INTENSE that it's like a magnetic force draws you to them any time they're around. BUT you find yourself having similar feelings to someone who IS here. Maybe it's not as intense but you do really like them and think about doing similar things with them as the person from home. Even though you've barely done any of those things with anyone let alone had a crush before.

What do you do? Do you hold out hope that maybe the crush will just go away or that your crush from home will show up? Do you go for it and hope it doesn't ruin everything? Especially if you're unsure if they have any of the same feelings or if they might already be with someone else.
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[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-01 09:04 am (UTC)(link)
Your definition of crush is making it hard for me to answer which option may provide the best outcome.

Almost forgot. Duration: 136 days, 18 hours, 1 minute and 58 seconds
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[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-12 10:57 am (UTC)(link)
How long I've been here. I haven't experienced any moonlacing beyond platonic contact.

The intensity of the force's pull is in relation or equivalent to the level of liking someone. Am I following you so far on the crush thing? I rarely interact with my studies on social behavior, just observe.
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1/2

[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-13 11:11 am (UTC)(link)
Then to say I have a crush on someone not here

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2/2

[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-13 11:12 am (UTC)(link)
[ No, nono. Send button, why... ]

HYPOTHETICALLY! I guess I would have to pick the stronger of the two since the feeling would be familiar.

I think.
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[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-26 09:15 am (UTC)(link)
It does, but that also leaves out the variable of when that may occur. Indefinitely can possibly mean never.

[ Oh boy. Empathizing is a thing right now. ]

I'm starting to understand the complexity of your problem and why you're gathering input.
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[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-27 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
It does put things in perspective. Too much, maybe.

A fail safe or kill switch in the worst case scenario is the only additional input I can offer. To be honest I think I'm out of my league here.
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[personal profile] enginehairing 2020-05-28 07:02 am (UTC)(link)
No problem! Always happy to learn something new. Even difficult relationship like stuff.