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Kore ❀ Persephone ([personal profile] ragingnature) wrote in [community profile] prismatica2020-04-30 02:40 am

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[ It took her a little bit to figure out how to post anonymously and she'll likely fail to keep it up, but she thought she'd try. ]

A recent survey posted to the network has me wondering how many here have been here for a little while and HAVEN'T done anything more beyond platonic physical contact. I only wish to know how long you've been here if so. You don't need to elaborate unless you want to.

One more query.

Say you have a crush on someone who isn't here. And not just a tiny little fluttering of something but it's so ridiculously INTENSE that it's like a magnetic force draws you to them any time they're around. BUT you find yourself having similar feelings to someone who IS here. Maybe it's not as intense but you do really like them and think about doing similar things with them as the person from home. Even though you've barely done any of those things with anyone let alone had a crush before.

What do you do? Do you hold out hope that maybe the crush will just go away or that your crush from home will show up? Do you go for it and hope it doesn't ruin everything? Especially if you're unsure if they have any of the same feelings or if they might already be with someone else.
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[personal profile] clodpole 2020-05-06 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
I cannot pretend to know much in the ways of romance and other such matters of the heart, sorry. When I asked a friend for her wisdom, though, she told me that everyone has their weakness—you need only find it! But she also advised me not to pin my dreams another. There’s ever so much to remember…
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[personal profile] clodpole 2020-05-19 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
I’m sorry I haven’t been of very much help…

If I may, what is it that draws you to this person so? What is it about them that makes you feel the way you do?
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[personal profile] clodpole 2020-05-21 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
I see… What a wonderful man he must be!

Have you thought to thank him for what he does? You needn’t confess your feelings for him outright, of course, but perhaps that might be a good place to start.
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[personal profile] clodpole 2020-05-21 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose suddenly telling him would be rather strange…

What if you were to give him a gift? Or do him a favor? Small, simple things like that often make the best tokens of appreciation, I find.
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[personal profile] clodpole 2020-05-21 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
That sounds like a lovely idea! I used to make risotto for my sister on these such occasions.

[ Persephone’s probably not going for a nice, sisterly-like gesture, though, so maybe it’s best they don’t talk about that! ]

Do you know what his favorite food is?
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[personal profile] clodpole 2020-05-21 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
I wish you all the best, then!

May the Flame ever light your path and guide you true.