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[satanslash]

i know romance questions annoy everyone here but too bad im asking anyway

if you were able to choose how someone proposed to you
(yes, as in marriage proposal)

what would you want to happen

small, big? public, private?

no you dont need to know why im asking thats why its anon

Comments

[satanslash]

do perfect proposals come up naturally in conversation for you?

[He's a dumbass but even he knows that's kind of weird.]

[triggerhappytraitor]

It's not about a specific answer, but knowing what sort of thing they like or don't like.

[satanslash]

i know plenty about what she likes and dislikes that doesnt mean we've talked about this exact thing

and i want it to be a surprise

[Why does no one seem to get that if he talks to Kohaku about it, she's going to know what he's planning?!]

[triggerhappytraitor]

If she likes surprises, than that's fine.

It's not about knowing the exact words to say, or things to do, it's about knowing how she likes to be asked things, what makes her happy, and what she would want to hear.

What's important isn't the asking, what's important is what comes after.

And that you asked.

[satanslash]

i know she likes being with me?
and my cooking

and that i'm kind of a dumbass

she also really likes miso

[triggerhappytraitor]

So try cooking her a nice meal, then asking her afterwards if she'd like you to cook for her for the rest of your lives together.

[satanslash]

wow thats corny af




i like it