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like i said. i threw a rock at her, you get to decide your own method of starting a conversation.
if it's any consolation, in my case most of the reasons we had for wanting each other dead don't really exist on this planet, so i guess we've agreed on a truce of sorts. could that be the case for any of the shit you've gotten yourself into?
if it's any consolation, in my case most of the reasons we had for wanting each other dead don't really exist on this planet, so i guess we've agreed on a truce of sorts. could that be the case for any of the shit you've gotten yourself into?
well.
good luck. it might go better than you think. or worse, but you'll never know unless you try and start the conversation.
good luck. it might go better than you think. or worse, but you'll never know unless you try and start the conversation.
I don't know.
What will you do if you can't?
What will you do if you can't?
But you want to at least try and talk things out, or you wouldn't be asking this.
Maybe... start by agreeing not to fight with them here? No accusations, no yelling, just... trying to figure out where you two go from here.
Maybe... start by agreeing not to fight with them here? No accusations, no yelling, just... trying to figure out where you two go from here.
Then that is your answer. At most, find someone to act as a mediator.
If you can't be sure you aren't going to fight with them, then is it really a good idea to meet?
how would i know that? i'm a total stranger to both of you
hey. you can ask a million what ifs and stay with the status quo until you're both dead, or you can just do it and find out. seeing as the other party is avoiding you, looks like that's your choice.
hey. you can ask a million what ifs and stay with the status quo until you're both dead, or you can just do it and find out. seeing as the other party is avoiding you, looks like that's your choice.
He wasn't an old friend, but he was a close one.
It did get tense at first, but my friend who was here longer chose to be honest with me about what had happened. Talking out the reason for our anger at each other helped us understand where we went wrong, and get back on good terms.
It did get tense at first, but my friend who was here longer chose to be honest with me about what had happened. Talking out the reason for our anger at each other helped us understand where we went wrong, and get back on good terms.
That's unfortunate. I'll admit, I feel like I'm lucky in that the two cases in which that's happened to me so far have been easily resolved, even if it's still a bit awkward.
Okay. So maybe you can send him a message first? Ask them if it's okay if you guys meet up, face to face? It's important to take into consideration their feelings too.
There is someone here who might call herself my "friend", but she is not. We have already met and it did not go very well at all. If you feel the need to approach this 'friend', please be advised that it might end up in violence. That is always something to keep in mind.
If it doesn't, there will probably be harsh words and hurt feelings, but I don't want you to be discouraged. If you had a good friendship before things soured, there is always a chance to regain some semblance of your former relationship. My only advice is to proceed with caution.
If it doesn't, there will probably be harsh words and hurt feelings, but I don't want you to be discouraged. If you had a good friendship before things soured, there is always a chance to regain some semblance of your former relationship. My only advice is to proceed with caution.
First I would ask yourself if you even want to try to mend things or not.
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