text 🥂 people on the network are especially horny today [nsfw]

[champagnetower]

Are you a top or a bottom?

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[foolishjustice]

[It takes...a while for him to work up the nerve to type out a response. He ends up not able to look properly at his screen.]

I lean top butcan switch under the right circumstances.

[He hastily presses send before he can chicken out...not noticing his typo until too late.]

[i_will_live]

I would have pegged you as a power bottom.

[foolishjustice]

[Welp, someone he knows has seen this. No turning back now.]

I like to feel like I'm in control sometimes.

Besides, have you see the kind of weapon I use when I don't want to look harmless?

[i_will_live]

That's fair. Feeling like things aren't in your control could be scary I guess, but if you can trust the person you're with it can be okay too.

It's okay if this is a bit too much info than you want to give, but have you tried both being top and bottom then?

[foolishjustice]

That's why I said I can switch under the right circumstances. If it's someone I wouldn't resent taking orders from, it's fine.

[By which he means, he's okay bottoming for Ren, if they're not in the mood for power play.]

What do you mean by being both?

[i_will_live]

I just mean have you tried taking orders too? I've only gone all the way during my first Cordis transformation and I ended up topping so I haven't actually tried bottoming.

I don't think I'd hate it though. So I was curious if you actually tried being bottom before.

[foolishjustice]

Not strictly, though I

[Oops, accidentally hit 'enter' there...]

've done things like trading off who's in control.

[champagnetower]

A very good answer! I'm glad there's a lot of switch representation here!

[foolishjustice]

There are alot of benefits to being versatile in general. Especially when your'e polyamorous.

[champagnetower]

Absolutely! I always say being versatile is important!

[foolishjustice]

Not that I thinkthat's the sort of thing you hsuld alreadhy be considering when you decide if you want to date someone or not.

[champagnetower]

That's true! As long as there's communication and you do your best, that's all anyone can really ask for!

[foolishjustice]

[...Oh, that. Sure was a lot of typos. That's as embarrassing as this subject, itself...]

Sorry about all the typos. I'm not used to talking about this kind of thing openly.

[champagnetower]

It's okay, no worries! You're still easy to understand!
Does that make this a bad or a good thing? It got you to talk about something openly you normally would not so probably good, right?