text; anonymous;

[grilletto]

[ Anonymous messages on the network seemed to be all the rage right now, and Mista wanted opinions. Answers? Something like that. Two nights of decidedly weird messages was exactly two nights too many. ]

weird question, but is anyone else getting fucked up messages in the middle of the night?

like text messages where people want to buy you clothes, kiss your friends and send you money?

asking for a friend

[ eta: everything coming from mista is still anonymous unless otherwise specified by a username in the subject line. ]

Comments

[getstoned]

dude that's fucked up
do they think you're a pimp?

....

are you a pimp?
don't literally sell out your friends
people don't appreciate that shit

[grilletto]

no???
what the hell of course not
I said they wanted to not that i agreed to it?

[grilletto]

they not i

[getstoned]

just calling it like i see it
it'd be one thing if they just wanted to hook-up
but like offering money is very suspect
also offering to buy you clothes is pretty weird too

are they trying to pretty woman you?
don't put up with that shit or people will push you around
when they shove you shove right back and show them what's what

[grilletto]

okay so he offered me money and i took it
but I told him it was because he was wasting my time

anyway, I would know if someone was trying to pull a pretty woman stunt, okay?
i would definitely know
i've seen that movie dozens of times

[getstoned]

he offered you money
and you took it

you're definitely his julia roberts
there's no escaping it now

like i'm not judging
it's okay if you want to take the things he's offering
just don't feel like you owe him anything you're uncomfortable giving up

[grilletto]

what the hell??
I am not??

look, in some cases it's probably a compliment to be called juila roberts
but this is definitely not one of them

first of all I know my self worth
so can't tick that box
second pretty sure this guy isn't rich
third i never wanted to be a princess or anything like that so I don't need a whole emotional transformation

[getstoned]

look there's no shame in embracing your desires
he may not be rich, but from the sounds of it has more than you do right now
or else you wouldn't be accepting his offers
or entertaining him

whether you mean to or not you've been encouraging him
men can be dumb and think the littlest things means it's okay
it's not your fault, but this is where you're at now
if you want to keep doing this it's not a bad thing to indulge in
just be careful and take care of yourself

[grilletto]

I ONLY ACCEPTED BECAUSE HE WAS FUCKING AROUND AND WASTING MY TIME!!
he owed me for it

and how is it encouraging if I keep telling him to stop messaging me
and that we're not friends?
i didn't ask for this so I definitely don't want it

[nobodylikeshim]

[ GOSH. Will he get mad enough to use his Stand to kill him? That would be just awful.

... Doubtful it will happen though. :C Still, that would be a nice end, too... ]

[getstoned]

i already told you men could be dumb
if you engage him in any way he's probably taking that as encouragement
and it looks like you're the type of person that can't just leave things alone

so either you ignore it and move on
or keep engaging and accept this is a pattern you're going to continue

[grilletto]

hey!
i can leave things alone!
it's got nothing to do with men and everything to do with the way this guy is
you can't just lump us all in with someone like that !!

[getstoned]

so you're a guy then?

same still applies
there are men that will pursue men in the same way
he's probably really into you and you definitely can't leave things alone
or else you wouldn't be having this problem

[grilletto]

yeah
i don't know why you assumed i wasn't?

but gross

[getstoned]

idk you approached this like a high school girl
and lost track of your cover story right away

i'm not here to judge or kinkshame
if he's into it or you're into it is none of my business
i'm just giving you some info to try and help yourself if you need it
because nobody else can handle this situation but you

[grilletto]

stop saying that he's into me!!
what the fuck

[getstoned]

i'm saying he's into 'it'
meaning whatever you're giving him during these exchanges

some people just like to mess around with other people for fun
it doesn't mean there has to be any romantic feelings involved

[grilletto]

well everyone just keeps saying he's into me
so of course I'm gonna think you mean it like that

i don't give him anything
I didn't even want to answer his stupid questions

[getstoned]

idk what the context of your exchanges are to figure out if he's into you or not
he could be doing it for the laughs or ???

but you still respond right?
that's giving him something
he might just like your reactions and you're feeling too much to shut it down
just like you're feeling too much in these exchanges

[grilletto]

if I tell you you'll probably get the wrong idea

yeah i respond
he'll probably just keep messaging me if i don't??

[getstoned]

you don't have to share it
i honestly don't wanna know

he might or he might not, it's just the risk to take
just turn your shit on silent if it bothers you so much

[grilletto]

yeah but what if there's an emergency and someone else needs me for something?

can't just run away from it like that i don't think

[getstoned]

why are you making so many excuses??
you can just leave him as read and get to your other important messages

[grilletto]

wait
as read?

[getstoned]

yeah as read
as in it looks like you read it but didn’t respond so you’re ghosting them
people hate that shit but it’s the best you could do