⏪ text | un: fantasma | DEAR ABBA part the second

[teaserving]

hey
so it looks like you guys are asking a million crazy questions again

well guess what here i come the foundation of wisdom leone abbacchio
ask your questions anonymously or whatever
i'll answer
since all of you are desperately asking for advice all the time!

ps: did you know your moonblessing can swap
just found out
fucking nuts

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[teaserving]

ok
real talk here
the only family member i felt close to was my grandma and she died when i was still a kid

after that the only people i've loved have been basically my adopted family
people who got together because they had no where else to go
i've never had a real home, not unless i was with them
so i guess you want to ask yourself if you're curious it's love or romantic love
which are you asking about?

[scarsnstripes]

I have people I'm close to now but I wouldn't know if we're family. I know they're my home. I know I'm close to them all. I know I can count on them all no matter what.

But I'm asking about romantic love specifically.

[teaserving]

ok
so
romantic love

that's more like
god how do i put this
for me, it's someone i trust. that i dedicate myself to. someone i would do anything for no matter the circumstances
someone who values me
even when i feel like i have no value
it's
like when they're not with you, you forget to breathe.
it's a lot.

[scarsnstripes]

[There's a long pause before that gets a response.

Mostly because.... there's two people that immediately come to mind, when he thinks about those words.]

Aside from the breathing part, which only happens when I'm not sure they're safe... that describes how I feel about two people off the top of my head. I always want to be around them. They make me incredibly happy. Happier than I think I might deserve.

Is that bad?

[teaserving]

i don't know
there are people who have done open dating
i haven't before but i don't knock it either
but it might be something only you can figure out for yourself

sounds like you might need to talk to a couple of people and see how they feel about you