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[ragingnature]

[ She's been sitting on this for a little bit now, unsure how to proceed. Luckily there's this handy dandy thing called the internet that she can ask. Anonymously, no less. Granted she'll probably out herself fairly quickly. ]

Those of you in committed relationships here how do you go about things?

What I mean is the Moons and various happenings in this world have a tendency to cause complications. So how do you deal with those things? What kind of arrangement have you come to?

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text | j.valentine

[torsion]

I'm pretty new to being in a relationship, but we agreed to be monogamous.

You deal with it as it comes. I guess it might be easier for me being someone that enjoys fighting and falls under Sanguis moon, but it's not much of an issue for me.
If things changed for some reason, I'd just talk to him.
The real arrangement we have, I guess, is honesty.

[ragingnature]

I see. I'm not in a relationship but the possibility has presented itself and I suppose I want a plan for how I'm going to approach things first.

Being honest makes sense.

[torsion]

Figure out what you want and prefer first and go from there. If someone can't meet you halfway, then they probably aren't worth it.

Getting ahead of myself, though. Might be awkward to talk about, but it's worth it.

[ragingnature]

Yeah, that makes sense. Maybe I need to sit down and do a pros and cons list.

Awkward might be a little bit of an understatement.

[torsion]

Take care of yourself and what you're interested in and want to talk about before you go for it.

If it's too difficult to talk to them, might be better to keep a distance instead of locking em down. If that makes sense.

[ragingnature]

Okay.

Thank you so much for your opinions.

[torsion]

Put yourself first and it'll pan out.

Assuming you need this advice specifically... well, good luck.
Otherwise, don't sweat it unless it comes up.