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[ragingnature]

[ She's been sitting on this for a little bit now, unsure how to proceed. Luckily there's this handy dandy thing called the internet that she can ask. Anonymously, no less. Granted she'll probably out herself fairly quickly. ]

Those of you in committed relationships here how do you go about things?

What I mean is the Moons and various happenings in this world have a tendency to cause complications. So how do you deal with those things? What kind of arrangement have you come to?

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[goestoextremes]

One more to the being honest about everything and not having any secrets between us line. We've agreed to be like whatever happens during moons or any other time here happens and it's fine, those things don't come between us. There are no (serious) feelings involved if things happen with others and we'll always come back home to each other.

[ragingnature]

You make it sound so easy.

[goestoextremes]

Did I? Then it's really not as easy as it sounds like, especially while it's all new. We come from the same world, we've been through a lot together and apparently, according to things she told me, we'll go through even more. We tried being completely monogamous here, just didn't work for us when at least one of us (me) is always too wild and too emotional and this world has all of its ways to get people to moonlace... There are all kinds of ways of how to make relationships work here and it may take time, a lot of testing and talking and everything, but you just. Do it your way, whatever works for you both.

[ragingnature]

To be fair, everyone's made it sound pretty easy when they say something "Just be honest". Obviously isn't it as simple as it sounds.

That's my biggest worry when it comes to this. Me being emotional and, admittedly, sometimes easily swayed by Moon's influence. Especially since spring hit.

[ She hopes her libido will calm the frick down soon. ]

[goestoextremes]

[ She almost asks "What does spring have anything to do--" oh wait, anon, right. Maybe she won't ask. ]

Yeah, that's definitely easier said than done. We learned it the hard way but nowadays it's much easier.

I get that, I can say the same about me too though spring has nothing to do with it for me. It's a pretty crazy world here with constant new ways of trying to get us moonlace as much as possible in any situation. Being one of those, who want to help others in any situation isn't always the best combo with that... We talk a lot, I guess the whole thing has a lot to do about understanding each other too and maybe not taking it too seriously if things accidentally happen here. Then again in our case, we'll be together back home too without any of this, so whatever happens here, stays here and it will be different back home with just us not interested in anyone else anymore.

Or I don't know, you could try to be around friends, who'll keep things platonic during crazy moon times while you figure this out but that's probably also one of those easier said than done things.

[ragingnature]

[ She's hoping that mentioning spring won't give her away, or at the very least those that know her don't see this. ]

I suppose it'll probably take a little trial and error, huh?

That is lucky, that no matter what happens here you're guaranteed to be together back home.

I do have some friends that things are strictly platonic with but my roommate is not one of them. Any pretense of keeping things platonic was thrown out during their first moon cycle here.