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inaba "100% dere" himeko ( 稲葉 姫子 ) ([personal profile] dereban) wrote in [community profile] prismatica2019-09-09 10:33 am

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hey everyone

i've got a question to ask that i'm a little shy about asking off anon
so, let's just say that you've had bad experiences with things that are supernatural back home.

like abilities, phenomena, things like that?

but you're here now.
magic is abundant here. a lot of people have powers and crap like that.

so what i'm wondering is that...

for those of you who have abilities: how would you feel if someone close to you, like a friend? had problems with your powers? how would you ease them into that sort of thing?
or if someone told you outright that they had problems with the supernatural, how would you help them?

unrelated to that, i do have another question.
i think i'm the only one explicitly from my world? but i think there are some people that are from a city or country similar to it, and i think it's really interesting that there's actually people like that.
but for someone who's kind of anti-social, it makes it hard to make friends wwww
is there anybody else here that's in that boat? i'm kind of curious.

anyway, tyvm in advance!! _へ__(‾◡◝ )>
badluckblues: (It's the greatest joke)

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[personal profile] badluckblues 2019-09-09 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
well, you got two choices

either you don't tell them, and keeps things shallow so you don't get hurt. or you tell them and hope that person is a good enough friend to you that they're willing to overlook whatever the 'problem' is and stay in your life.

you'll find out who your true friends are real quick.
justicedevil: (Z15)

anon

[personal profile] justicedevil 2019-09-09 07:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I'm not entirely sure how'd I really deal with that. I don't exactly think of my powers as "supernatural", especially since anyone could actually learn how to use them.

But I guess I'd just try to... not bring it up or use them around them, if a friend was bothered by powers. I mean, that really seems to be the only thing I can think of doing.
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[personal profile] justicedevil 2019-09-09 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)
... Well, I wouldn't say it's common either. Not many people know about it, there's just nothing about you that needs to be special for you to use it.

... But okay, yeah, if the person was in trouble and the only way that I could actually help them was to use my powers, then I'd have to go ahead and use them and just hope that they're less upset with that than whatever else was going to happen.
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[personal profile] badluckblues 2019-09-09 07:30 pm (UTC)(link)
i'd just leave them alone. whether or not they think it's worth the risk to be around me is a choice they gotta make for themselves, and i don't think less of anyone for choosing to be safe.

odds are if you're someone with a violent or dangerous ability, you're already used to not having many friends
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[personal profile] justicedevil 2019-09-09 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it's manipulating your ki, which is something that everything that's living has. Once you know how to do it, it's just doing that to do whatever it is that you need to do, like making your attacks stronger or flying or shooting blasts of it.

Unfortunately, it's not really something that's super documented anywhere, so anyone who would be learning how to do it would have to learn from someone else who already knows how. Which is why not that many people know how to do it.

... Well, that and the fact that it's still hard to actually do.

And yeah, I'd hope the same if I saved someone, but some people can be a little weird about things like that.
badluckblues: (getting hard now you're sober)

[personal profile] badluckblues 2019-09-09 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
how fair is it to knowingly put a person at risk for the time it takes them to get to know you? hard to say that kind of person is a totally good one
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[personal profile] badluckblues 2019-09-09 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
that's the hard part about being upfront, isn't it? you gotta be prepared to lose a friend

not sure which side of the equation you're asking about, but it ain't easy for either party i'm sure
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[personal profile] teaserving 2019-09-09 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
tell them to piss off they're not much of a friend if they have problems with your powers or whatever you are
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[personal profile] justicedevil 2019-09-09 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Huh. Yeah, that's pretty much it. Though the fact that it doesn't work where you're from is really weird. But I've already taught someone who wasn't from my world how to use it... and back home there were aliens who could use it too so I think it's probably more that everyone who's tried to do it where you're from are just messing up.

Or maybe the ones who can actually do it aren't advertising it, so you only have people who are faking it that you know about. It's hard to say without me actually, you know, being there to tell.
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[personal profile] justicedevil 2019-09-09 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, fair enough. It's not exactly something you should even start trying to learn unless you really want to and you're serious about it.
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[personal profile] the_archivist 2019-09-10 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Where I'm from there is no such thing as the benevolent supernatural. Anyone would be quite correct in being wary, or outright hostile towards someone who displayed such abilities.

If I was told they had problems with the supernatural, I would be encouraging them to retain that suspicion and to try and get as far away from the source of the supernatural as they could.
badluckblues: (It's the greatest joke)

[personal profile] badluckblues 2019-09-10 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, it is. frankly i still haven't got it figured out. it is what it is though, friends are gonna choose to stick around or not.

but if you're the type who's willing to hang around long enough to get to know a person, and maybe forgive them for not speaking up right away

i bet it'd mean a lot, no matter what the choice was in the end
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anon

[personal profile] trivialpursuit 2019-09-10 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
If they didn't 'get it,' I wouldn't bother to begin with, so it's a nonissue.

But in the hypothetical sense, it's not the responsibility of someone with 'abilities' to help other people be comfortable with it.
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[personal profile] trivialization 2019-09-10 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
Me? I'd let them go. It's the people who don't have a problem with it who need their heads examined.

If I were just some run-of-the-mill mage... I'd probably tell them about my culture and lifestyle. Put the power in its context. Magic isn't an obscurity or aberration in a society of mages, and most who wield it don't experience it as a power that places them above anyone else, any more than a 20th century human from the developed countries would experience the ownership of a car as a transformational mastery of the people around them.
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[personal profile] witchwithoutacause 2019-09-10 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
so i could definitely NOT use magic around someone at first but it would feel too restrictive to stay like that forever i guess?

i'm the only one from my world too. idk i've met some cool people but i don't really have a regular crew i hang out with yet. but i'm from An Earth.

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