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[burstmodes]

yo it's me again ✌️

sort of noticed a lot of questions going around about love and dating and all kinds of other stuff
figured i throw some more into the pot
see what we could uh cook up haha

[ Ignis, if you hear this, he's not really that sorry. ]

anyway so

say you were seeing somebody and they had these secrets
like stuff they never told you
would that be a deal breaker if they ever came up
(guess this goes for people who are the ones with the secrets too)

or what if there was something you wanted to tell someone but weren't really sure how to go about doing it
easy in like all up front or ignore it and hope for the best? 🤔

oh oh and one more thing
anyone here a sword expert?
don't answer if you're thinkin about 🍆💦
serious stuff only

[ Honestly, he doesn't care too much for that last part, but he had to be specific. ]

Comments

[doreimi]

I sure did! I woke up to some presents this morning and everything. It was awfully sweet!

Oh, I do that too, all the time! One of my secrets just slips out a lot, when I'm not even thinking about it.

[burstmodes]

ok cool
hopefully from somebody you like 😉👌

if that's true it must not be a terrible secret or anything

[doreimi]

Yeah, well. I guess he's all right. ;)
And he knows everything I like best, so he made sure to get all my favorites!

I mean, I guess terrible is sort of in how you look at it? I'm sort of used to it but I can see how it would bother other people.

[burstmodes]

your boyfriend?

[ ...no, wait. Why did he type that? Ahhhh. ]

i mean
you don't have to answer that
it just sort of sounds like it

yeah you're right
i'm definitely overthinking this a lot
what about the other way around?
would you wanna know all of someone's secrets?

[doreimi]

Hmm, how can I put it? He's the one person who's more important to me than anything. So it's pretty sweet of him to do something like that for me.

And, um...

I think...if they were secrets that hurt the person I cared about, then I would want to know them so that I could help support that person. But I also don't think they should HAVE to tell me all their secrets. So I guess yes, I would want to know? But I would understand if they didn't want me to.

[burstmodes]

well if you feel that way about him he must feel that way about you
pretty lucky dude in my opinion

that's a good way of putting it
i'll definitely have to think about this more
and just in case i'm not the one with the secret so it makes it harder to decide i think
if i wanna know or if stuff is good the way it is

[ Would the things he knows even be considered a secret anymore? Oh well, that's a thought for another day. ]

[doreimi]

Aw, you're such a charmer! Have you ever had someone in your life that makes you feel like...they're so important, you wouldn't be "you" without them? He's like that.

I mean, it can definitely be hard when it's someone else who has the secret, because your imagination can get a little crazy with wondering what the secret might be, right? But I think, if you care about that person a lot, then sometimes you just have to trust them. And try to tell yourself that whatever it is they're not telling you, their reasons aren't bad, because they care about you too and they're trying to do the right thing.

[burstmodes]

haha no way
but i know what you mean
that's my best buddy through and through
pretty sure i wouldn't be the same without him

you give good advice you know
you ever do stuff like this before??
i mean explain things to people the way you're telling it to me

[doreimi]

Aww. Then he must be a really special guy! And I'm sure he thinks the same thing about you too.

Hah! It's kind of funny you say that, one of my friends — well, I think of him as a big brother type by now, but we're not ACTUALLY related — is pretty well-known for getting on here and giving out advice. Maybe he's rubbing off on me!

Actually, I think it's just that I'm still so happy to be able to talk to people at all. For a long time back home I was all alone with my dog...so I guess maybe having a lot of time to think and nobody to talk to sort of paid off? Something like that...

[burstmodes]

haha you bet

i guess that sort of stuff does if you've seen it enough
he sounds like a cool person too 👍👍

ah yeah that'll do it
at least you had your dog though?
i love dogs and birds and pretty much everything ever