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yo it's me again ✌️

sort of noticed a lot of questions going around about love and dating and all kinds of other stuff
figured i throw some more into the pot
see what we could uh cook up haha

[ Ignis, if you hear this, he's not really that sorry. ]

anyway so

say you were seeing somebody and they had these secrets
like stuff they never told you
would that be a deal breaker if they ever came up
(guess this goes for people who are the ones with the secrets too)

or what if there was something you wanted to tell someone but weren't really sure how to go about doing it
easy in like all up front or ignore it and hope for the best? 🤔

oh oh and one more thing
anyone here a sword expert?
don't answer if you're thinkin about 🍆💦
serious stuff only

[ Honestly, he doesn't care too much for that last part, but he had to be specific. ]

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Haha, well, it's White Day today, so it's a good day for questions about love and dating!

Anyway, I'm someone with a couple of secrets, and I've been someone who's had to try to figure out how to tell those secrets to the people I care about, so I guess I can talk about that with some experience.

For me...when I can get away with ignoring it, I usually do. At least at first, because my secrets are the kind of secrets that it'd be pretty hard to guess without me drawing attention to them. And...honestly? I don't want people to think differently about me because of them, at least not until they've had the chance to get to know me.

But once they do? I try to tell them. And there's really no easy way to lead into my secrets gently, so...up front is pretty much the only way I can do it, haha.

Depends on what the secret is. For both of those.

[ He can't see what you did there. Because he's blind.

Still ashamed of u tbh. ]

Secrets will be shared when the time is right. If they don't want to share, that's fine. If they're someone you care about it shouldn't matter.

As for telling someone something, I guess it depends on what it is and what it would do if shared.

As for swords, I wouldn't call myself an expert, but I know how to use them.

Edited 2020-03-15 07:57 (UTC)

is it a deal breaker? or are they just assuming it is? important distinction, as it turns out

anyway i guess you could say i know my way around a sword

Guess it depends on the secret? [Reno's not much for typing if he can avoid it, too much work.] Are we talking "I masturbate into your shirt" secrets? Or are we talking about "you know me as Mark, but I'm really Steve and I have this life you know nothing about and expect you to drop everything to accommodate my Steve life even though you're invested in the Mark life" secret?

On the whole, I don't think secrets are a problem [he wouldn't] you can never know absolutely everything about a person and some things you probably don't want to know. Like if someone masturbated into my shirt for example, just wash it, dry it, fold it and put it away so that I'm none the wiser and we're both happier not knowing and not telling.

[He shrugs his shoulders as if it's not a big deal and it isn't in his opinion.]

Just depends on the secret.

[Reno contemplates the next question for all of a few seconds before answering.]

If I had something to say to someone I'd just say it, but that's because I don't see the point in ignoring it. You could always hope for the best later.

[]He's not going to respond to the last bit, his only expertise in swords is having one swung at him.]

Secrets can be frustrating to deal with but I think it's also pretty common to have at least a secret or two you keep from your partner.

I guess it just depends in the end.

But if there's something you definitely want to tell someone else then you should just say it. I wouldn't try to ignore something if you're looking at it as a "hope for the best" sort of thing.

I'd expect them to tell it to me.
And if it was me, I'd sit them down and talk about it. No matter how difficult it is.

There are little secrets like things you've done in your past and there are bigger ones that will change how they might see you or feel about you. If you're asking this question you know what kind it is and if it's important or not to talk about it.

But that's just me. I don't make it a secret that I'd need honesty and trust above all else and my definitions are more stringent than some.

Everyone is permitted to have their secrets. 'Tis not feasible to assume that others are so open and honest.

1. I would examine why they felt it necessary to keep it from me to begin with.
They may not have desired to upset me.

[ Considering how much his own father hid, he can sort of understand the impulse to keep secrets. ]

2. Go all in. Be honest.

3. I'm proficient in teaching and practicing sword combat.

4. I'm not thinking about eggplant sweat.

ive kinda been
dealing with the last one lately

uh anyway i wouldnt say im an expert but i have trained with a sword for the last few years

I know a great deal about swords.

What's your interest?

I'm always willing to talk about swords. Do you have any questions about them?

I suppose it would depend on what type of secrets. Someone hiding that they actually dislike chocolate
but ate it to please you is not exactly a big deal, I feel.

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