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[burstmodes]

yo it's me again ✌️

sort of noticed a lot of questions going around about love and dating and all kinds of other stuff
figured i throw some more into the pot
see what we could uh cook up haha

[ Ignis, if you hear this, he's not really that sorry. ]

anyway so

say you were seeing somebody and they had these secrets
like stuff they never told you
would that be a deal breaker if they ever came up
(guess this goes for people who are the ones with the secrets too)

or what if there was something you wanted to tell someone but weren't really sure how to go about doing it
easy in like all up front or ignore it and hope for the best? 🤔

oh oh and one more thing
anyone here a sword expert?
don't answer if you're thinkin about 🍆💦
serious stuff only

[ Honestly, he doesn't care too much for that last part, but he had to be specific. ]

Comments

[burstmodes]

well sure
i'm not saying you can't keep secrets or anything
but what if it's one of those things you don't even know about until it's too late?

[porcelainandblood]

Then if it becomes too late, it is too late. It would be silly to get lost over it at that point.
I suppose if there is something that one feels ought to be covered early on, then it is the responsibility of that individual to divulge it. That being said, such would be subjective. What could be of grave importance to you may not be to another.

There is no particularly right or wrong way to handle this, as it would not be possible to satisfy all members of this happenstance.

[It could be done if everyone agreed about upfront honesty, but if that were the case with whatever he might be going through, he wouldn't have asked it the way he did.]

[burstmodes]

i think that's what everyone else has been saying too
i guess i just wish it was a little easier to decide what's important and what's not so important
but you're right
it really just depends on the situation...

[porcelainandblood]

In an ideal world, there would be no need for us to have secrets from one another. Unfortunately, it would appear that no such world exists. Idealism is not necessarily equivalent to realism.