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inaba "100% dere" himeko ( 稲葉 姫子 ) ([personal profile] dereban) wrote in [community profile] prismatica2019-10-17 11:39 am

four 💕 anonymous text.

so, once again, iiiiit's your local prismanon asking for some advice!

it's almost the end of the year, huh? like, ten months deep. i've been here for like, what? almost half a year now? that's kind of shocking to be honest. and it makes me wonder. who here misses their homes? but more so than that...

we're getting 'older' here, right? like, if your birthday passes, you count that as a +1 to your age, right?

so, the real question i have here is simple: if you start getting older than all of your friends back home, isn't it kind of sad? you spend all your time here, getting to know people, maybe making new friends. but you're aging. you don't know if your world's time is moving. like... i'm the only one from my world here, tbh. it's lonely! ( ´•̥̥̥ω•̥̥̥` )

the other thing ig i wanted to ask is...

if the person you care about the most is back home, how do you deal with that? how can you just bear waiting to figure out how to get home -- when you've been in this world for so long that you've almost given up hope on the idea that maybe, one day, they'll show up here. or even that you might actually go back?
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anon

[personal profile] sarcaskick 2019-10-17 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
i mean it's either

a. go home and get dragged into a war i couldn't really care less about

or

b. stay here and get paid for sex all the time





so i guess i'm saying this is a way better choice for me and my old home can burn for all i care
teaserving: (WINE MOM)

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[personal profile] teaserving 2019-10-17 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
i dont have room to miss home
not that i ever really felt home anywhere

anyway
most of my friends are here
so i guess i'm fortunate in that case

but i guess you gotta ask yourself
is if the person you're waiting on is worth it or not
and do they even know you're waiting for them or vice versa
highsteaks: (moe)

also anon

[personal profile] highsteaks 2019-10-18 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly I'm not really dealing at all.
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[personal profile] provenforce 2019-10-18 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people I care about are back home, but I don't know that I would want them to end up here. Though my... sworn enemy is also here, which means he can't be causing trouble for them back home.

I guess I take comfort in that.
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Anon

[personal profile] resenting 2019-10-18 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
Good question. Thinking about time like that gives me a headache, but I figure you're whatever age you say you are, I guess? Who knows how time actually works from one world to another.

I started to think that I might get used to just living it out in another world, to be honest.
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[personal profile] champagnetower 2019-10-18 01:13 pm (UTC)(link)
The person I care about most is back home, and I haven't yet figured out how to deal with that.
We've been best friends since we were kids. That's a long time spent together.
I don't know how to be without.😢
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[personal profile] dj_jiraiya 2019-10-18 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
time kinda stops over there actually. i went home 4 a hot second and nothing changed. it was basically like i never left. we mite age here but i think wen we go bak its gonna be like we never left

i wasnt here 4 very long so i could totally wrong. most of my friends r here but they didnt notice id left. and 2 of them r from a couple years ahead of me now while we’re here and i think they woulda noticed if i aged here and came bak older u kno?

ahhh sry i dont think im wording it rite? basically i dont think anythin changes bak home and wen we go back itll b like we never left. including us having aged, we also lose our memories so we wouldnt even notice.

judgin by wat sum have said already i guess thats gonna be both good and bad 4 sum tho.

also 2 answer ur 1st question, i miss home a lot. my friends r here but my fam isnt and it rly sux :(
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[personal profile] wearingguess 2019-10-19 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
It should have less to do with whether your birthday has passed than with how much time there was until your birthday back on your own world, right?
For example, if someone left their own world the day after their birthday
But due to the different timeline we are on here in this world, they arrived here on the day before their birthday
They would not be a whole additional year older just because their birthday had passed again.

I was also incredibly worried about the possibility that all the time I've spent here was also passing back there. I didn't even want to think about all the problems it must be causing for everyone back home, and how worried they must be...
But then people from my world arrived, and they told me that from their perspectives, I never disappeared. So I was able to relax a bit... but at the same time, I don't know whether that means that I will eventually return to the same moment from which I departed, or that it means I myself have somehow become a separate existence from the "me" who remained... or that it means something else entirely.

But I am afraid I really have no useful advice for dealing with the absence of the person I care about most. I suppose I only "deal" with it by having no other choice...
I am lucky in that my friend who arrived was able to tell me that she remains well and happy... even three years later. But
Knowing that does nothing to change how terribly I miss her here and now.
I do not know whether there is really anything we can do about that.
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anonymous

[personal profile] bratworth 2019-10-20 11:01 am (UTC)(link)
The person I care most about is dead.

( thx edgeworth, very cheery. )
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[personal profile] trivialization 2019-10-20 03:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I've seen teenagers who are young enough to still grow some so as far as physical growth is concerned it should be easy enough to find out.

If you can convince any that you don't have questionable motives for wanting to measure them, anyway.

Otherwise, you're having experiences, aren't you? That's what aging is.

Edited 2019-10-20 15:04 (UTC)
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[personal profile] trample 2019-10-22 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
Much as I would like to believe in the potential of returning home, I've grown less and less confident in the idea. Ever more as time goes on. I fear I may never see the one I care for most ever again. Not even here. Though I greatly wish for a better life for her, which I'm hesitant to say this world can provide. I feel as if doing so will guarantee I never get the chance to leave.